She is Switzerland

Like Switzerland, she remains in the middle

Like Switzerland, she is torn between her two worlds

Like Switzerland, there are no sides to take

She fits not in either world, for nothing feels right.

She’s without a country to call her own

The longer she remains in one world

The more she forgets the other; not fluent in either tongue

Her allegiance to both worlds equals

But she truly belongs to only one; which one?

Her birth country is but a memory,

Her adoptive country is but a burden, full of hate and fear of the different

She yearns to return to the land of her people, but she has ties that bind

She feels the air of home swirling around her

She hears the sounds of locals as their lives intertwine

She tastes the foods she loved as a young girl

For now she waits, for a ripe time to return home, for without her mother

And father among the living, she feels not a connection to her homeland

She desperately wants to turn back time, but she can’t

She lives with the excruciating pain of death’s stolen love.

And so like Switzerland, she remains in the middle.

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